Hey friends!
Recently, i've been thinking and seeing the word "Love" in my quiet time, in church, and in my random thoughts. Even coming to this page reminds me yet again of Love. (if you noticed, that word seems to appear a number of times here). Hence, I was just pondering and reflecting about it and here's just some thought for us all. :)
We've all been through the crisis. Well if you haven't, I believe you will eventually ;) That is, the identity crisis. We wonder who we are, we start thinking if we are of any use to this world, if we're good enough for those around us. If we were to seach deep down in our hearts on why we go through this supposed crisis, it is simply because we are looking for love. In our perception, love means being accepted. Getting rejected by friends, family, or maybe the opposite sex plunges us down into a sea of sadness. In sadness, one feels no love. Nowadays, we call it "emo". Haha. Those who are still a current mg girls, i'm sure you know at least 2 or 3 friends who are in the emo stage. Maybe, you too are in that stage.
We feel so empty.. so unloved. Sometimes we resort to other things to just fill up that empty part in our hearts. Getting addicted to tv, facebook, blogging, or maybe even mugging our lives away (that takes up a lot of time) are perhaps some things we try to fill ourselves up with, so that we can have some sort of satisfaction and pleasure in life. The problem is, these are temporal things. Whether you know it now or not, when all these are taken away you'll be back at square one. The emptiness rushes in again. Our heart, soul and spirit is simply - :( :( :( (1 sad face for each haha)
You're only 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, and maybe older. Technically, you're not even halfway through your life. I dont know about you, but for me the thought of spending and living the rest of your life on temporal happiness dosen't sound very exciting, nor very nice.
We need a solution.
Let me bring you to this famous part of the Bible. "It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails" 1 Corinthians 13:7-8. God is love. So in other words, it says that "God always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always peseveres. God never fails"
Isnt that wonderful? He never fails. Everything else in life may fail; your friends, family, computer, exams. But He simply dosen't. This also means that the joy and love He gives is everlasting. We don't need to go searching for other things that gives us temporal joy, because we have found the one that lasts forever. This Love also has a greater meaning. It protects, trusts, hopes, peseveres. In fact it is a lot more, this only describes a little on what this Love really is.
I believe that our identity crisis ends when we find real love, which is Christ. Our identity has also been found, which is Him! When we accept and invite Him into our hearts truly, He comes ever so lovingly and willingly into our lives. What He does, is overflow and fill up your life with so much joy, love hope and peace. I can tell you that with much confidence because I've personally experienced that. It dosen't mean that your problems will disappear, but it does means that you're not alone fighting your problems. He is there, He is there.
And you know, when you're so full of love, a bit tends to spill out. Soon, you'll find yourself having the extra strength to love those around you so much more! This, is what we call Sharing His Love :)
Tiff